My Ideal Birthday Celebration

My way of celebration

Happy Birthday…………………</p

over planned day of the year, we know that it will be 24 hour day but we plan like it will be a month of celebration. >
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birthday, i don't like celebrating my birthday by giving parties or by going out with friends. Actually in reality i have never done any of this on my birthday. for me the ideal celebration for my birthday will be keeping it simple and cute. i don't want fancy decoration nor expensive gift. the ideal setup for my birthday will be my home with my family and with some of mine close friends.
And what about food? I am real foody person. In menu on my birthday i like home-made cake and some of my favorite dishes prepared by my mom, and after dinner a movie with my family at my house with all the juicee gossips from my aunt and special commentary on silly action and scenes of movie by all my brother it’s the real fun of my birthday being with family and sharing the love and affection with my dear ones…

the main things in the birthday are the gifts if you want to present me something than i will be more than happy to receive a nice book or something related to me or specially for me it need not to be expensive( in presents it’s the feeling that matters not the price)…

Actually on my Birthday i just want to feel the love of being with my family because its the day when they let me decide what we will do and i don’t want to destroy all this with the material blings and market decoration….
in short my ideal celebration is being with my family and some close friends on my birthday….. the selfless love….. :-)

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A New Book Recommendation


The Sense of an Ending, the new novel by “Julian Barnes” about the fortunes of a group of school friends, is brief but masterful,

Memory, individual rather than collective, accounts for who we are and what we have become. And early memory is particularly valuable, though it can be misconstrued. Its influence can persist throughout adult life, though what is cause and what effect may be difficult to judge. In this short but compelling novel Julian Barnes tracks the origin of one particular memory through a long and apparently uneventful life towards an explanation that leaves traces of unease that are difficult to dismiss.

The facts are quite simple. Three school-friends, of whom the narrator, Tony Webster, is one, are joined by a fourth, Adrian Finn, who is much cleverer than any of them. They age and lose contact with one another. But Webster, eventually married and divorced, cannot rid himself of the memory of his former girlfriend, Veronica, at whose family home he once spent a weekend. At the time he had felt uncomfortable, socially inferior, and he was hardly surprised when the enigmatic Veronica took up with the more prestigious Adrian. His early misconception hardens imperceptibly into a mystery that is exacerbated when he learns of Adrian’s suicide. Nor can he understand why Veronica’s mother should leave him a small legacy and the news that she possesses Adrian’s diary.

These facts throw into relief his inability to reconstruct his relations with either Adrian or Veronica. What remains in his memory is the discomfort he felt on that weekend, a discomfort he cannot explain even at an advanced age. The clue might lie in the diary, but attempts to get hold of it are unavailing. He is up against an initial misalliance to which others are being added, containing the same characters but no further explanation.

Webster’s attempts to resolve this enigma form the bulk of this clever novel, in the course of which it becomes clear that the character of Veronica is pivotal. Even her random impulses, to which Webster had become accustomed, seem opaque. The explanation, when it comes, is so fortuitous that it throws into doubt that early unease and what Webster had made of it. The unease had been, and had remained, authentic. This is a fact to which others are gradually added.

Going back in his mind, Webster unearths another memory of that uncomfortable weekend: the odd kindness of Veronica’s mother and her eventual legacy. His reading of the incident had been inconclusive: later reconstructions supply more clues. Finally he accepts an alternative version, which turns out to be the correct one, though it is a betrayal of all concerned.

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My 45 minutes workout…..

Now life is hectic, lot of things to do and less time and in this race we overlook the most important thing in our life that is our health as they say “health is wealth”. Somewhere we all want to have a good, attractive physique and healthy life style but due to our hectic schedule we are unable to do so. But if we try by including small-small changes in our life style we can achieve our desirable results…
I am going share with you my workout regime it’s a 40 minute workout regime but you can get amazing result in these 40 minutes and there is an interesting thing you will not be requiring any thing extra or special to do this and no need of paying those heavy amount on gym membership fees…..

MY 45 MINUTES…..
First thing you need is to get up early in the morning because exercise in morning is more beneficiary than the one in evening so get up at 5 in the morning and then freshen yourself….
First 15 minutes
Start from jogging to warm up and loose your body bit. JOG for 5 minutes than change it in to RUNNING for 5 minutes than at last “SPRINT running” of 30-30sec for 5 minutes. In these 15 minutes you will be able to cover at least a distance of 2.5 km…


After these 15 minutes you will feel like all fired up…
Now start skipping ropes and push up side by side for 15 minutes.
Skipping is most effective and fun way of toning your body. So first start skipping for 3 minutes and try to jump at least 150 times in these 3 minutes. Than after these 3 minutes drop you’re skipping ropes and take push up’s position and do 25 to 30 push ups in 3 minutes. And repeat this process of skipping and pushup for 15 minutes.


In these 30 minutes you have worked on your legs, butts, lower calf muscle, chest muscle, and arms muscle and on your stamina…
Now the last 15 minutes exercise would be many of your favorite
Now in last 15 minutes just do P.T. to equalize and relax your breath.
Now your 45 minutes are over and your exercise too….

below are some P.T. exercises that will do good for back pain and other joints pain…..

This is just a beginner’s regime. Beginner can start their exercise and can later make changes in this and those who already do little exercise can also use this regime to get good physique but they have to increase repetitions and speed of doing exercise like instead of 25 push ups they will have to do 50 pushups in 3 minutes and instead of 2.5 km they will have to cover 3.5 km distance in jogging and sprint and they will be able to see the result.

In the last I would like say something “every medicine takes its time to effect” in the same by doing or following this regime for one or two-day you will not be able to see any changes but after continuous 20 days of exercise many of you will be able to see changes and will be happy with that….

This was mine 45 minute workout

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If Money Were No Object


money!!!

the basic thing for survival, that every body need and to earn that we sometime do what we not want to do. we work against our interest and hate our lives…

but if we all would have been free from this burden of earning, working and would be free like children to do anything than what would be my choices of work that i would have chosen irrespective of not so good salary but on the basis of other thing…

the three jobs that i would consider pursuing if money wasn't the decision factor…

my first choice would be wildlife explorer: many would thing why wild life exploring. than for you the reason is "adventure and the real art of god" there are many thing outside our house in the world which are unthinkable and unbelievable which are still unexplored and are waiting to explored. like there was glowing jellyfish discovered deep in the sea and there are many more creature that need to be explored like the flying golden snake, the ice frogs with a capability of staying alive after freezing and The ghost slug – Selenochlamys ysbryda – was a surprising find in the well-collected and densely populated area of Cardiff. and there are many more. i know the earning i not that much but the chance of seeing them first and the feel of discovering something new on your own and moreover the chance of seeing the god creation with your own eyes…..

my second choice would be being an archaeologist: being an archaeologist is not a job of big moolah and and riches.its a job of love.if you love your work than only you will be going to stay otherwise not. this job requires a lot of patience and hard work, you have to work with low funds and many more things but apart from all difficulties the fun of discovering the past and knowing past is amazing. if i would get the chance i would be happy to spend my life on the historical sites or at the pyramid of Egypt discovering something new about the past…

the third choice of profession that i would like to have is little odd from my first 2 choices but some how is related to the above ones. my third choice of job will be a librarian. many would think this as a boring job, but have you ever thought you will be having the access to thousand of books that means a lot of knowledge.by reading a book you can see through the authors eyes and when you have access to thousand of book than in other words you have access to almost thousand worlds. i know you must feel it boring but try once you will start enjoying learning from everything be it by exploring or reading….

these are the top three jobs that i will like to do if money is not the matter……..

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when i reach home, what i need most and why……….

After a hectic day, when I reach my home, the thing I need most is my pajamas, there is a reason for that also. whole day I have to wear those skinny jeans and fitted shirts. Why, just because it’s in fashion and like everybody I has to follow it. “but why I have to follow it” so I should not look out-of-place. sometime I wish that how wonderful it will be if I would go to work in my pajamas, “the comfort, the easy feel”, but in reality it’s not the pajama that I really want everywhere, it’s the burden of continuously proving “ME” that I want to put off. when I am at home in my pajamas I need not to prove anybody that whether it looks good on me or not. its me who really I am with no special effects, and with no extra props.
the above paragraph is not only in the context of clothes it’s about our behavior our lives and our continuous struggle to prove ourselves. for ex :- when we wear uncomfortable jeans who literally biting us. why we do this, why we take that much pain?. just to show our self above others. but when we are at home in our pajamas, subconsciously we are keeping us away from this continuous race and we feel relaxed. so that’s why i like my pajamas very much and can wear them every day for everyplace because its real me………..

try for your self and think once somewhere I am right or not………
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would u like to have a look in your future?

Thinking about knowing your future is something great. we all dream about this. knowing future so that we can change it and make better use of it for ourselves. but i f you ask me that would you take this chance of knowing your future. than my answer will be "no". i know knowing about the future can be fun but that fun will not last for long. just think it will be good to know about the good things that will going to happen with you but what about the bad news and bad things that will be going to happen with you. if there will be something that is really bad and something that you can't change. than what will you do. you will just spoil your left days in the worry of something that will going to happen with you in the future.

there was a line i read somewhere which says "future is like a gift, if we don't know whats in, we will be surprised. so if we will not be knowing what in future, we will be more happy….

so i will not take a chance of looking in to my future rather than i will enjoy my present. so my choice will be enjoying this Christmas gift that i have rather than worrying for the next Christmas gift…

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My First Day in Delhi -2

             psssshh… ppssshh… 

 

   

                                                           After reaching in the corridor I started moving as my driver was moving ahead of me like the leader showing the way to reach my destiny but as my patience gave up I asked him “where are we going there is nothing here except these ripped up oldies, dust and darkness nothing happening or interesting and you still wants me to continuing moving this direction. But my words and statement was not making any effect on him and he was still keeping that grim smile him that he knows everything and you soon going to get what you want you will be surprised by that also. but this time his smile worked as a detonator for me and I was so charged burst out on but suddenly I heard a sound pssshhh psshhhh…” that sound save the driver from the tsunami of my anger as I turned in that direction I saw a women standing there wearing a sari (wearing will be wrong thing to use, she was just putting it). She must average in height and was looking like reaching mid 20. Her hairs were open not clutched eyes were lined and her lips were plastered with thick lipstick. after seeing her I thought ” wow Delhi’s beggar maintain a standard being a beggar she still affording these cosmetics must be expensive but my thinking was going to be wrong”.

 

After seeing her I asked

What!!

You want something? “She asked in her lower tone”

Hearing this question from some woman at this place who did not look like a beggar but wearing clothes like one was strange for me. So I again asked her “what???” but this time in a confident way.

But this question of mine was going to made me regret for asking my driver to take me to some place and will also going to know about the source for those cosmetics expenses.

In response to this question of mine she didn’t say anything just pointed at the stairs but in the end of the stairs there was something unexpected by me that going to scare me out till my last hair and will going to make me realize where I was. And where my driver has taken me and also the reason behind the grim look on my drivers.

                       

When I looked at the pointed direction that is at the top of the stairs there were some women were sitting with least clothes that they need to cover their body or I should say enough clothes to show their body to attract, some were wearing just their inner wear, and some were covering them with a sheet. At that place there were women from different parts of a country. Some were from Mongolia some were from Kashmir and some foreigners were also present there but the thing which was common in them was the thing for what they were present there. Those stairs were actually an entrance to the brothel like other stairs which were present there. Watching this unexpected scene I was like in a shock for second that I was in the red light area of Delhi. After realizing where I was, I just started moving in the direction of my nose so to quickly get myself out of the place. I started moving in a brisk walk manner and with that speed I erupted on my driver like a volcano and started shouting on him for what he had done or for where he had taken me. But that loud voice of mine came to halt by hearing the banging sound of a stick with the ground which was accompanied by the whistle. and when I turned at the sound to see whose sound was that but by seeing the source of the sound I was converted in the statue of stone in park that is helpless and can’t do anything to stop the birds from doing shit except smiling that was the same position I was in. because in front of me was a constable coming toward me banging his stick in ground to make the surrounding aware of his existence. What can be worse than this “First day in Delhi if caught by the “hawaldar”(i.e. constable) that too in the red light area? No one in my family will go to bail me out from jail I will have to spend my life in jail. And I will be removed from the family picture like unwanted furniture and no one will talk to me from my family”. All these thoughts coming into my mind. When you stuck in this kind of situation there is only one thing left i.e. god so I also started praying in my mind “please god save me I will never come in these areas and will come temple every Tuesday but please save me from this situation”. And I continued praying till the constable came close to me. At the time when the constable was coming to me all my blood was frozen don’t know why but I was not able to move in any direction. There was reason for that so, 1st I was very terrified by seeing the constable there and I was known that if I tries to run he will certainly chase me and then there will not be any option for me so I chose an another option that is to move with the slower pace in the same direction of the constable with confidence to make my cut on the situation but with the continuous chanting of prayer to save me at back of my head. At last my prayers were answered because the constable was just on the routine check and not conducting any raid. but from the time of his coming closer to me till he passes I was continuously trying to act normal by moving my concern on other thing but somehow my eyes always turns toward him to check where he reaches, is he still watching me, or is he coming to me or to some else. But as he passes I was relieved as if like I got the place to pee after controlling for hours. And as the constable passes besides me I instead of walking started running to get to the car and in no time I was in-car and car was out of Paharganj and also out from the reach of that constable….

                               While driving back to my uncle’s house I asked one question to my driver that was more like an enquiry for me.

 ”Is it written on my faces that take me to brothel and I want to enjoy with a prostitute?”

  “no bhaiyaji I was just thinking to fulfill your wish and I was just taking you to a place which is most happening for me”, said my driver by disappearing his grim smile and making his face little innocent like a new-born who didn’t know that he had done pee in the lap of his guardian.

From that day onward I decided never to ask some driver or some servant of mine the most happening place for fun because we all have different definition for the word “happening” or “rocking”.

           After an hour of drive in the traffic of Delhi and a couple of twists and turns I reached to my uncle’s house in South-Ex.

                                              it was a DDA colony and I must accept that in Delhi government made things are really beautiful because that was really good according to his scenario with lots of park and trees in a colony or it can be because of the girls who were playing badminton or having their evening walk in those garden in their short sexy dresses. Those can easily came in the category of two piece swim suits and can acquire good rank too. After that drama at Paharganj now I was actually getting something from which I was looking to give my adventure a good start in Delhi. So I shifted my whole concentration on those girls and ordered my driver to drive the car as slowly as it can be stated as moving and I can enjoy baking my eyes for some time. but it didn’t last for long and I came across the garden and again was moving for my uncle’s house but this time little happy because I was sharing the colony with those girls and I will surely going to meet them next morning not incidentally but intentionally and that too of mine only.

                                                                                              At 9 I reached home with  a tired body but with boosted soul or you can say that and then the whole chain of welcome beta started but it was obvious because I was like a son to them and they have seen me playing naked or we can say “nude”. so I was also happy to see them and we talked till 12 in night and then we go to sleep that too because of my behaving like sleepy person who have not slept from past 5 to 10 years but there was a reason for that and the reason was really important and it was to wake up early in the morning and have to meet those sexy women oops… sorry  those sexy patthaas ( now I am in Delhi so act like “delhiites”).

 

to be continued….

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my first day in delhi…

CHAPTER ONE

It all started when I completed my 12th and moved to Delhi for my graduation to get better facility for my studies but somewhere in my heart there was something which was more desperate than me to reach Delhi. Sorry I forgot first I should introduce myself to you. My name is Manav an average looking boy, not so good-looking but smartest person on earth according to my mom. I born in joint family that is little conservative in some sense and it was good too for some degree but all there rules and regulation were going to be broken including the special one (i.e. never have any girl + friend). I completed my schooling from Agra; yup that’s my home town. It’s not that much broad-minded as the place where I will be going that is Delhi. Being from a small town the atmosphere of Delhi was somewhere going to affect me as it is famous “delli ki hawa”. And I was totally bedazzled with the lights of Delhi who were beaming as gems in front of me. When I completed my schooling I was not at all interested in coming Delhi because I had never visited Delhi before but thanks to NDA exam, they have the centre in Delhi which is the most nearest centre from my house. So to give NDA exam without knowing what NDA stands for I packed my bag for Delhi and my papa and my uncle came to bid me farewell on the railway station with their don’t know useful or not advises “like beta if T.T. comes just offer him 50 rs. and try to bargain if he asks more and if not agree on 50 than give 100 and not more than that”. Then suddenly I heard some one saying that if T.T. comes just hide in the toilet. After 15 minutes of advises but feels like of almost an hour train arrives with as usual announcing his presence with the whistle.

      Apart from all this, I was very much excited not because I was going to Delhi but also this was my first journey by train that to alone without any one to restrict me. I boarded the train and with me my papa, my uncle, driver also boarded the train and when I asked where all are you coming than the most affectionate and stupid reason came in front of me.

“Beta we are just holding these seats so that no one else can take these seats and when train will start moving we will get off and you will have the whole birth to seat comfortably”. I know they were just thinking for my better sake due to their love and affection for me. after two or three minutes train started moving and all my family member or I can say my seat holding gang leave their seats for me and get off the train with smile. :-)

                                                   First journey in the train, that too alone and with full birth to sit, sleep or whatever I want to do (only public thing so please don’t run your imagination in some other direction). In reality I was very excited for my first journey but then also thinking about the T.T. that was almost pictured like a devil in my mind by the statements of my uncle and now I was getting myself mentally prepared to bargain with T.T. with all my power.                                                                                                                              

                                      After desperately waiting for T.T. in the whole journey I didn’t get even a change to have a glimpse of him. And I reached Nizzamuddin station Delhi in the evening and there I found my uncles driver waiting for me. By seeing me he instantly jumped on my luggage and started saying “welcome bhaiyaji how was your journey, come bhaiya all will be waiting at home bhaiyaji and car is waiting at the parking.” but my mind was planning something else…. something devil but as it was my first day in Delhi so I decided to settle on something small so I asked him (driver) to take me to the most happening place of Delhi. But I forgot that I was asking this to a driver and for him the most happening area will be…

                                        So after half an hour of drive we reached a place, he took me somewhere near new Delhi railway station but I was disappointed by seeing the place because it was all isolated and dark there was no crowd no lights and nothing interesting as I was thinking, but there were no girls as I wanting to see some Delhi girls(or todda) to give a good start to my journey but there was nothing to lift my testosterone. But then suddenly my driver stopped the car at the side of the road and then asked me to get off the car to enjoy the place and when he was saying this line his face was shining like he has conquered some war on his own. I was not little but more surprised by seeing the place and the grim on the face of my driver. Then he opened my side window and asked me to follow him and I was like an innocent child unaware of new world started moving beside him to discover the secret. After some second we stopped in a corridor. there were some people standing in the corridor but there face were not at all visible because of the dark but by seeing their silhouette it can be easily guessed that they were not teenagers or young they were looking like oldies who are bored with their life and finding something to charge their batteries with little expenses. Except these little groups of people there were some stalls for tea, cigarettes and tobacco and a medical shop. Except all this the corridor was attached with some pairs of stairs at an equal distance which were provided with different numbers but I didn’t dare to look the end of the stairs till I meet with the woman or you can call her girl or women…..  :-o

to be continued….

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WHEN MY HEART STOPED BEATING FOR ME…

It still engraved somewhere in my memory. When I close my eyes, I still can see that moment passing like a scene of a movie. I can steel  smell her in the atmosphere around me whenever I think about her. But now that she has gone and as now I am alone. I think I should speak out. I should tell my feeling to mirror so that I can share everything that I have been through and can re live these moments again. I feel now to tell everybody about my heart and about its first mistake, so that I will never forget it. Mainly we tries to forget our past and tries to move on by leaving our mistakes behind but sometime its not that easy, sometime its very hard to decide weather the pain is more or the pleasure was more. Were the beautiful moments were on heavier side or the lonely pain. But when I think about her I don’t know what happens to the math of my life. Every pain seems on the negative side of the number line and happiness seems on the positive side accompanying her. Don’t know why all this happened to me but know when all this started and going to share it.
It was the month of monsoon the rainy season was on door. It was evening and I was at my house alone sitting in the balcony and peeping was out. I was looking at the passerby and the children who were moving around there. Alone there thinking about my behavior the way I was behaving with my friends strange and irritated, I know there was something wrong with me don’t know what. From past one or two weeks I was not talking properly to my friends, irritating them and bombarding on them without reason. But as I was thinking about all this I got a call from a friend.

“fatty ( as they used to call me) where are you” ‘I said- home’ .

She asked “what are doing and r u free”
I replied ‘just sitting at home, what happened’ on this she said” be ready we are going out late in the evening to “the Gate”
On this I said “I m not feeling up to so you carry on…”
“Listen I am not asking you, I am simply telling you, be ready and we are meeting today” she replied.
Than I had no option except getting ready and I was on my way…
At 6 30 we all reached the Gate, it was a big open garden with a monument in the middle of it. There were total five of us, But there was one couple in us so as we reached the Gate they parted from us and we three left. Now there were three of us. she, I and our one common friend. We started our site seeing. Took some photo gave crazy pose, asking total strangers to click our pictures,shouting and having  fun and how one hour passed in all this I didn’t noticed but there was something that I noticed, that I was feeling happy, I was like rejuvenated by kind of external force. But all I know was that I was enjoying my self. It was coming to dark and we all decided to leave for our homes. So we called the parted pair to come and join us but they were somewhere else or to the other side which was almost a kilometer distance so we asked them to come and that we are waiting on the exit point. But before they could have arrived, the rain arrived. and it started raining and all three of us took shelter under the tree trying to save ourselves from the water. But than we thought what will happen if we go in rain. We will get wet that’s all and we will have to take private cab instead of public transport. So without thinking much we jumped in the rain we started moving toward the exit but in between we were totally wet. So we three totally wet walking on the road in the rain and here comes a bottle. Rain, totally wet, and a bottle. The deadliest combination to have fun. So we started playing foot bottle. It was like my childhood days were back. All jumping around no tension, no worry simple fun in the rain, we played ringa ringa roses a simple game that i used to play in my childhood its a fun in rain to play and also easy to play, just hold hands look up and than start revolving.it feels great. Than after half an hour of playing and enjoying we sat on the road looking at the Gate it was looking awesome in rain fully lighted. Whenever I think about those moments it floats in front of my eyes. after this we all moved toward our house totally drenched in rain water in the same cab and I dropped them at their house but something was still with me and that was the smile that I was carrying with me that was with me after a long time. At that night I felt that I am the luckiest person in the world I don’t know I was right or not but yes I was feeling great that night. I reached my house almost at 11 and as I reached my house I picked my bike and was out again in rain shouting on the nearly empty roads but the feeling was something that is hard to explain. That whole night I didn’t slept, I was literally running on the roads of the town totally wet with those moments and with her thought don’t know how all that happened. I never wanted that to happen with me but it happened on that day and there was a change in the beats of my heart that i can notice, from that day or from that evening I know that my heart had stopped beating for me and it beats for somebody else, because it feels good to make her happy, everything feels great and I think that I am still the luckiest guy in the world that my heart still beats for the person and still thinks about melodious that moments we had and i still…

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